For a blogger, I am terrible at expressing myself. These last two months of “Stay-At-Home” orders has been hard for me to process. Now to see another innocent black man killed by the police and the rhetoric it has ensued has left me heartbroken. Being the only adult in my house with a two year old who has no idea what is occurring around him in the world is extremely difficult. Even though I know I can always talk to my coworkers and family through video chat, I fear that I may bother them or they may be busy. I am no good over a video chat as well, I much prefer face to face conversations as I’ve said in a previous post. So if this post seems like a stream of consciousness, it is, because I am still processing this world around me with no sounding board other than the voice inside my head.
I fear for the lives of my students the most. I know being in alternative education, the possibility of losing a student is much higher than in standard schools. That doesn’t make me any more prepared or any easier. It’s a constant running thought in the back of my head. Being apart from them these last two months has been the worst. Although we are doing online learning, I have not heard from some of them since schools were closed and have no idea on how they are doing. And now more than ever I want to be there for my students and I feel as though I cannot find a way how.
In some ways, I feel it is not my place to speak on the behalf of others on social media because I am a white Latina. Black Lives Matter means that their voices need to be heard right now, not mine. I am still an ally though and I try to be there for my students and anyone else as much as I can given the nature of our world and my current situation. I know I cannot go and protest on the front lines because I would not take my son with me. The same thing with wanting to help with food distribution because CPS halted their services today or helping clean up post looting. I almost feel useless because I do want to do these things, but with COVID-19, I don’t feel comfortable leaving my son somewhere else.
So that leaves sharing on Social Media, which I hardly do in the first place and never really have done outside of these posts. I am a listener at heart, rather than a talker, but I am adjusting to knowing when I do need to speak up. Below was a great post for me to start with:
This spoke to the teacher in me. When I read this post, it made me understand more the setting cop cars on fire. I have always been ready to forgive a student who has ever acted out in my class because I know it is not out of malice towards me, but out of frustration and dealing with the trauma in their lives. It helped me put into perspective on how I will approach any future conversations, or if anyone decides to comment negatively toward my sharing of this point of view. In terms of looting, I do not believe in it, but again it is not my place. I do want to make sure that stores who are family owned, especially those of POC, and are already struggling during the pandemic are protected in some way though. Target Corporation said it best that they have enough money and insurance that they will be fine if they are looted, small stores more than likely will not be.
Now to address the biggest issue I have with the conversation surrounding the protest. It’s the fact that people are condemning Black Lives Matter, our president is calling them THUGS, and saying “when the looting starts, the shooting starts.” But only a few weeks ago there were hordes of white Americans protesting about wearing a mask during the pandemic with WEAPONS and he GLORIFIED THEM! This is the issue that has my blood boiling and unable to comprehend the leadership in this country and how much this man has seemed to have gotten away with and that there are people who still support him. This is also what terrifies me the most. I wish my students didn’t have to learn how to survive in this type of world, and I certainly do not want my son raised in this environment. But, this is the hand we were given, and I will do anything and everything that I can to try and make it a little better for my students and my son, because they deserve better than this.